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Self-Responsibility – Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame, guilt or projection upon another person, by making it their fault. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know, as you have not walked in their “shoes”. When feeling upset, restore balance to your heart and aura, by lovingly holding your boundaries without violating others boundaries by expecting them to resolve your conflict. Be willing and open to learn what the “real issue” is, which most of the time not what it appears to be. Going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of yourself and others, allowing time, neutralizes the conflict. | Self-Responsibility – Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame, guilt or projection upon another person, by making it their fault. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know, as you have not walked in their “shoes”. When feeling upset, restore balance to your heart and aura, by lovingly holding your boundaries without violating others boundaries by expecting them to resolve your conflict. Be willing and open to learn what the “real issue” is, which most of the time not what it appears to be. Going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of yourself and others, allowing time, neutralizes the conflict. | ||
==Relationship Mastery Guideline== | ==Relationship Mastery Guideline== | ||
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Improving our [[Compassion]]ate communication with others, improving our relating skills, personally and in group dynamics, is a skill set that will go a long way to serve your mission. With that in mind we set forth a few guidelines to remember when communicating with others or relating with others. The first step is [[Self-Responsibility]] in all of your thoughts, actions and behaviors with yourself and others. | Improving our [[Compassion]]ate communication with others, improving our relating skills, personally and in group dynamics, is a skill set that will go a long way to serve your mission. With that in mind we set forth a few guidelines to remember when communicating with others or relating with others. The first step is [[Self-Responsibility]] in all of your thoughts, actions and behaviors with yourself and others. | ||
==Krystal Consciousness Values== | |||
This life philosophy is met with focused intentions to express communication and behaviors with an open heart which is congruent with these VALUES: * Open-Hearted Living | |||
* Self-compassion | |||
* Expressing from the heart | |||
* Receiving with compassion | |||
* Prioritizing connection | |||
* Moving beyond "right" and "wrong" to using needs-based assessments | |||
* Choice, [[Self Responsibility|Responsibility]], Peace | |||
* Taking [[Self Responsibility|Responsibility]] for our feelings | |||
* Taking [[Self Responsibility|Responsibility]] for our actions | |||
* Living in peace with unmet needs ( acceptance) | |||
* Increasing capacity for meeting needs | |||
* Increasing capacity for meeting the present moment | |||
* Sharing Power and Resources (Partnership) | |||
* Caring equally for everyone’s needs ( Group consciousness) | |||
* Using force minimally and to protect (defend) rather than to superimpose beliefs, punish, or get what we want without mutual agreement | |||
Krystic qualities have also been described in the [[GSF Behavior]]s from the ES Guardian Perspective, as the antidote to AD ego behavior resulting from [[Mind Control]] programming and lack of knowledge and [[Self-Awareness]]. To establish mental discipline in order to cultivate and develop more of GSF or Krystic qualities here are the suggested tools: | |||
==References== | ==References== | ||