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==Impatience==
==Impatience==
Impatience—the fear of running late—can stimulate controlling behavior. Often impatient people usurp control in an attempt to speed events along and get more done. This quick-fix rarely works. As the signs say “The hurrier I go the behinder I get,” and “Look before you leap.”Doing as a substitute for Being:I make up for my pathetic being with more and more doing. I have a relentless sense of duty; I cannot say no. If I do enough my value will become obvious, even to me.
Often impatient people usurp control in an attempt to speed events along and get more done. Many times taking the shortcut does not help anyone to get better results any quicker. Patience is a one of the [[Spirits of Christ]] and is developed to learn better self control and discipline in one's mental focus. Impatience creates self entitlement, while Patience creates the inner discipline to earn [[Virtues]] upon developing one's own skill and competency. This quick-fix rarely works and is hidden behind many layers of facade which is built upon a house of cards ready to fall.
 


==Contingent Self-esteem==
==Contingent Self-esteem==