Relationship Closure Exercise
Relationship Closure
As we go through our emotional clearing process, sometimes it’s very helpful to complete the following relationship closure exercise. This exercise is very helpful in resolving crystallized patterns in the body by stating intentions and declarations that you are forgiving, releasing and closing this particular relationship that trauma, emotional fears or other abhorrent energies that were recorded as cellular memories in your energy field.
Any time we experience shock or trauma it creates a memory imprint or residue in our energy field. To fully resolve, heal and clear these issues, recorded as traumas, in our physical body and other energy body systems, we need to become aware of that trauma in bringing it to the surface and allowing it to be released fully and with intention. Generally, I have found this helps clear and release emotional blocks much more effectively, efficiently and rapidly.
For this exercise, you will need a pad of paper and a pen or pencil. So, as you are ready with your pen and your pad of paper, let’s begin the series of questions.
When you are ready, take a deep breath and quite your mind and allow yourself to prepare for this exercise.
Ask yourself if there is any human being or circumstance in your life that you need to forgive or resolve.
Bring up that person or circumstance to mind. Feel the story, feel the memory, what that feels like.
And now we’re going to ask the following questions and as that question is asked, you write out completely your answer. On your piece of paper you allow yourself to write and express all that you need to, allow it all to come out, let yourself feel your feelings until you feel complete with that question.
For each person and each circumstance, here are four questions to ask yourself and to write out and express completely.
- 1. The first question is to list all of your resentments toward that person or towards that circumstance.
- 2. The second question is to list all your regrets towards that person or circumstance.
- 3. The third question is to write all unsaid or undelivered communications towards that person or circumstance.
- 4. The fourth question is to communicate and describe anything you would have wanted to acknowledge that person for, but you did not.
When you feel complete and have written everything that you feel you need to, burn the paper, in a safe place, of course, and invocate the following out loud.
I address my greater God self for final release and disposition. Please witness my declaration of power. I rescind any and all vows and contracts I have taken, anyone in this body has taken and anyone in my genetic lineage has taken pertaining to any vow of illusion, separation and disharmony. Remove and clear all negative beliefs, negative implants, ancestral patterning, genetic patterning, and improper karmic attachments to ______________ (insert the name of the person), known or unknown to me.
I claim my divine inheritance and self sovereign god power now. I now declare these vows and contract null and void in this incarnation and all incarnations across space and time, all parallel realities, parallel universes, alternate realities, alternate universes, all planetary systems, all source systems, all dimensions and the void.
Spirit; please release all structures, devices, entities, orientations or effects associated with this relationship through vow or agreement now.
Beloveds in deep love and gratitude, thank you. And so it is. [1]