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As the [[Victimizer Archetypes]] and related programs that are embedded in the cellular matrix are very enhanced now, especially in adjunct to Life Review patterns for many of us now on the ascension path. This is explosive for some of us now, and I am observing traps for ensnarement, and [[Addiction]], like jaws attempting to latch on to our vulnerability. [[False Truce]] is listed in the HGS Manual under the Victim-Victimizer 2 clearing under Addictions/Phobias. <ref>Victim-Victimizer 2 in HGS Manual: Page 109</ref>
As the [[Victimizer Archetypes]] and related programs that are embedded in the cellular matrix are very enhanced now, especially in adjunct to Life Review patterns for many of us now on the ascension path. This is explosive for some of us now, and I am observing traps for ensnarement, and [[Addiction]], like jaws attempting to latch on to our vulnerability. [[False Truce]] is listed in the HGS Manual under the Victim-Victimizer 2 clearing under Addictions/Phobias. <ref>Victim-Victimizer 2 in HGS Manual: Page 109</ref>


A [[False Truce]] is when a person who has had a conflict with another person, is not interested in resolution or ending the conflict, but in promoting the conflict further. This is the guise of pretending that they are perfectly okay with whatever conflict had transpired. Because they have not accepted any [[Accountability]] to their role in the conflict, they will usually spread gossip, defame the character of the other person, to retaliate for the self justification they have made up from their [[Ego Defense Mechanism]]s.  
A [[False Truce]] is when a person who has had a conflict with another person, is not interested in resolution or ending the conflict, but in promoting the conflict further. This is the guise of pretending that they are perfectly okay with whatever conflict had transpired. Because they have not accepted any [[Accountability]] to their role in the conflict, they will usually spread gossip, defame the character of the other person ([[Character Assassination]]), to retaliate for the self justification they made up from their [[Ego Defense Mechanism]]s.  


==What is Gossip?==
==What is Gossip?==
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• Assuming anything about another person when you do not have the facts, creates suspicions and lack of trust
• Assuming anything about another person when you do not have the facts, creates suspicions and lack of trust


To avoid harmful gossip, we must clarify our speech to focus on facts and if you do not have them, then be silent. Always, look for facts and demonstrated behavior to verify information. Especially, if this has a negative connotation and the potential to feed victimizer programs that can further hurt or harm anyone. If you have knowledge of facts and direct experience, and it is known to potentially create harm, then contact the person directly, and discuss it with them. There is no need to tell twenty other people about that incident, unless, the moral dilemma is that person is still acting recklessly and harming many other people without their awareness. Even so, this is very sensitive, we must look to our inner motivations, and do our best to express ourselves with pure harmless intention, with the only motivation being to speak the truth as carefully as we can to describe what we may know.
To avoid harmful [[Malicious Gossip]], we must clarify our speech to focus on facts and if you do not have them, then be silent. Always, look for facts and demonstrated behavior to verify information. Especially, if this has a negative connotation and the potential to feed victimizer programs that can further hurt or harm anyone. If you have knowledge of facts and direct experience, and it is known to potentially create harm, then contact the person directly, and discuss it with them. There is no need to tell twenty other people about that incident, unless, the moral dilemma is that person is still acting recklessly and harming many other people without their awareness. Even so, this is very sensitive, we must look to our inner motivations, and do our best to express ourselves with pure harmless intention, with the only motivation being to speak the truth as carefully as we can to describe what we may know.


==What is Triangulation?==
==What is Triangulation?==