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Fear is the main manipulation tool of the [[Controller]] archetype that is designed to generate perceptions of being threatened and feeling unsafe in the company of others and in any kind of social setting. It also produces [[Relationally Unsafe People]], who are generally unethical, disrespectful people that [[Lack of Empathy|lack empathy]] for others. | [[Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt|Fear]] is the main manipulation tool of the [[Controller]] archetype that is designed to generate perceptions of being threatened and feeling unsafe in the company of others and in any kind of social setting. It also produces [[Relationally Unsafe People]], who are generally unethical, disrespectful people that [[Lack of Empathy|lack empathy]] for others. | ||
Essentially, [[Unsafe People]] have weak character qualities that tend to spread fear and disunity, which make other people feel unsafe while in their presence. Many unsafe people have developed walls to distance themselves from others because of their hidden fears, that stem from unhealed personal [[Trauma]]. All of us have been in the company of an unsafe person and noticed how uncomfortable and tense we may feel while in their presence. When we cannot be authentic and truthful in the presence of another because we fear they will judge, persecute or attack us for revealing ourselves, we feel deeply uncomfortable, drained and unsafe when we are in their presence. Many relationally unsafe people are ruled by their fears and many of their reactions and impulses are made unconsciously, through their unhealed [[Mental Triggers|mental or emotional triggers]]. | Essentially, [[Unsafe People]] have weak character qualities that tend to spread fear and disunity, which make other people feel unsafe while in their presence. Many unsafe people have developed walls to distance themselves from others because of their hidden fears, that stem from unhealed personal [[Trauma]]. All of us have been in the company of an unsafe person and noticed how uncomfortable and tense we may feel while in their presence. When we cannot be authentic and truthful in the presence of another because we fear they will judge, persecute or attack us for revealing ourselves, we feel deeply uncomfortable, drained and unsafe when we are in their presence. Many relationally unsafe people are ruled by their fears and many of their reactions and impulses are made unconsciously, through their unhealed [[Mental Triggers|mental or emotional triggers]]. | ||
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Strong spiritual foundation is built upon the cornerstone of [[Strong Moral Character|moral character]] development and building trust inside and outside for ourselves. [[Trust, Building Trust|Trust]] is built upon the consistent ethical behaviors of moral conduct where people are treated with equal respect and kindness, and allowed to be who they are without repercussion. As much as you may feel unsafe with others, are you yourself a safe person for others to be around? Many times what we fear in others is the hidden unconscious behavior that we have not cleared from within our own deepest selves. Until we are willing to look at these hidden fears, we can also easily project or transfer these fears onto other people. | Strong spiritual foundation is built upon the cornerstone of [[Strong Moral Character|moral character]] development and building trust inside and outside for ourselves. [[Trust, Building Trust|Trust]] is built upon the consistent ethical behaviors of moral conduct where people are treated with equal respect and kindness, and allowed to be who they are without repercussion. As much as you may feel unsafe with others, are you yourself a safe person for others to be around? Many times what we fear in others is the hidden unconscious behavior that we have not cleared from within our own deepest selves. Until we are willing to look at these hidden fears, we can also easily project or transfer these fears onto other people. | ||
As a basic guideline for extracting fears by replacing negative qualities with positive qualities, is monitoring day-to-day thoughts and behaviors. We can look to [[GSF Behavior]] or simply adhere to the [[Golden Rule]]. Treat others' as you would like to be treated, and intend to build [[Self | As a basic guideline for extracting fears by replacing negative qualities with positive qualities, is monitoring day-to-day thoughts and behaviors. We can look to [[GSF Behavior]] or simply adhere to the [[Golden Rule]]. Treat others' as you would like to be treated, and intend to build [[Self Esteem]] through esteeming actions.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/resource-tools/news-shift-timelines/3200-overcoming-fear Overcoming Fear]</ref> | ||
==References== | ==References== | ||
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==See Also== | ==See Also== | ||
[[Relationally Safe People]] | |||
[[Category: Newsletter]] | [[Category: Newsletter]] | ||
[[Category: Ascension]] | [[Category: Ascension]] | ||