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Fear is the main manipulation tool of the [[Controller]] archetype that is designed to generate perceptions of being threatened and feeling unsafe in the company of others and in any kind of social setting. It also produces [[Relationally Unsafe People]], who are generally unethical, disrespectful people that [[Lack of Empathy|lack empathy]] for others. | [[Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt|Fear]] is the main manipulation tool of the [[Controller]] archetype that is designed to generate perceptions of being threatened and feeling unsafe in the company of others and in any kind of social setting. It also produces [[Relationally Unsafe People]], who are generally unethical, disrespectful people that [[Lack of Empathy|lack empathy]] for others. | ||
Essentially, [[Unsafe People]] have weak character qualities that tend to spread fear and disunity, which make other people feel unsafe while in their presence. Many unsafe people have developed walls to distance themselves from others because of their hidden fears, that stem from unhealed personal [[Trauma]]. All of us have been in the company of an unsafe person and noticed how uncomfortable and tense we may feel while in their presence. When we cannot be authentic and truthful in the presence of another because we fear they will judge, persecute or attack us for revealing ourselves, we feel deeply uncomfortable, drained and unsafe when we are in their presence. Many relationally unsafe people are ruled by their fears and many of their reactions and impulses are made unconsciously, through their unhealed [[Mental Triggers|mental or emotional triggers]]. | Essentially, [[Unsafe People]] have weak character qualities that tend to spread fear and disunity, which make other people feel unsafe while in their presence. Many unsafe people have developed walls to distance themselves from others because of their hidden fears, that stem from unhealed personal [[Trauma]]. All of us have been in the company of an unsafe person and noticed how uncomfortable and tense we may feel while in their presence. When we cannot be authentic and truthful in the presence of another because we fear they will judge, persecute or attack us for revealing ourselves, we feel deeply uncomfortable, drained and unsafe when we are in their presence. Many relationally unsafe people are ruled by their fears and many of their reactions and impulses are made unconsciously, through their unhealed [[Mental Triggers|mental or emotional triggers]]. | ||