Discovering the Core in Relationship: Difference between revisions

Most people are unaware that many relationships on planet today are directly attracted by the spirit self in order to resolve past [[Ancestral Clearing|ancestral-family patterns]], clear blockages, and [[Polarity Integrator|integrate forces of polarity]]. All relationships are directly designed for personal growth and [[Expanding Consciousness|consciousness expansion]]. Without an evolutionary context towards relationships, one is left confused and potentially manipulated by unresolved [[Pain Body|personal pain]]. When we can recognize the fear program driving the core foundation in our relationships, we can refuse its control over our [[Self-Sovereignty|personal sovereignty]] as eternal soul beings. To address the fear is to make sure we keep our heart open for unconditional loving kindness, acting in service to the other, yet maintaining our boundaries for self-love and [[Self Esteem|self-respect]]. Our goal is to move beyond old painful patterns that have defined our relationships, in the past or present.

Once we can see where we have projected our issues on our relationships, our partner or lack thereof, then we must accept [[Self-Responsibility|responsibility]] and seek to change our behavior in the relationship connections immediately.

To evolve relationships and achieve spiritually healthy, loving and deeply intimate connection, one must be willing to look honestly at one's personal capacity to be unconditionally loving, forgiving and to genuinely be of service to your partner, even if its inconvenient. One can address the defining foundation of relationships and note where fear, denial or pain has shut your heart down. Then make changes consciously to not let fear or pain close your heart down when communicating or facing issues. What prevents relationships from evolving is [[Trust, Building Trust|lack of transparency]] and generally communication blocks formed from deep fears of intimacy or vulnerability. Deep fears of intimacy are what completely shut down the emotional capability to experience deeper forms of loving intimacy and connection in every kind of relationship. Until we heal fears of intimacy /vulnerability, and we are willing to learn how to communicate loving kindness intimately with our partner, while acting transparently, we will not experience deep intimate bonds. We must rid ourselves of all judgment, facade and manipulation in the scope of relationships and intimate relating.

In having greater clarity about what has defined relationships that have previously not been based on [[Loving Kindness Meditation|loving kindness]], service and spiritual development, we can clarify new ways to affirm our dedication to our spiritual principles. When we dedicate the practice of the [[Law of One]] to our relationships or to ourselves, we shift current relationships or attract the aligned spiritual mate for us at this time. Some guidelines for the [[Service to Others]] and [[Relationship Mastery Guidelines|Mastering Love in our relationships]]:

These are new relationship templates being created on this planet, and they take an advanced skillset in clearing [[Negative Ego]] and [[Pain Body]] before this can be effortlessly experienced and achieved. It is important to realize this kind of clarity and bond in a loving relationship can be experienced, and honor the relationships that we have had in our lifetime. Every relationship is an opportunity to gain self-energetic mastery and self-knowledge and is an important stepping-stone to spiritual consciousness development that leads to inner [[Energetic Balance]] and then outer sacred union ([[Hieros Gamos]]).

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