Trusting Yourself

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Now when you achieve some level of Observer Point when you can hold Neutrality most to all of the time, the next stage is to develop either emotional cognition through your own discernment. It is better to not depend on things such as pendulums, because they can be manipulated, but if you feel that you're being psychically attacked by something, or being interfered with, then most probably you are. If something in your life situation, or relationships is feeling off, then it probably is, and you should pay attention to listen to what you are really feeling deep inside, that gives you information about someone or something. The challenge is, that emotionally or mentally, many people don't trust themselves in that moment, and that is another kind of issue. We have to learn how to fully trust what we are feeling in the moment, what we are experiencing through our intuitive body, even if it doesn't fit our mental framework. Being fearful about what somebody else on the external is going to think about you or judge you for what you are feeling, will block your own feelings and will block trust. Through my own experiences of being incredibly attacked by various dark sources, that when I went to the people that I thought would understand, the light workers, I thought they would understand what was happening to me, and they didn’t. And this devastated me because I had trusted them to be honest with what I was really experiencing. I thought my God, if lightworkers don't understand what I'm talking about, then something's gotta be really wrong with me. This reaction blocked my ability to trust myself, when what was occurring to me was accurately represented. The reactions I got from other people were to confuse my experiences and to deny my reality from existence.

I had a friend of mine who said “I've been doing this psychic work for 22 years Lisa and this attacking has never happened to me, I'm really worried about you”. That just about broke my heart when I heard that because I knew in my own heart what my real intention was, honesty and transparency. This comment was fired back to me to make me doubt myself, to lose trust in myself. But of course you can’t explain paranormal experiences to anyone else and expect them to understand. It's your own experience. I realized I would have to do this discovery of my Ascension in silence and isolation, away from others judgments and criticism, and be alone in my own energy. Because there wasn’t a lot of people on the outside that were able be a sound board and be capable to have this larger discussion without imposing judgments. Again, this is another critical reason why I'm here for the Starseeds right now. I want to be able to assist where you are empowered, where this information will empower you to know that there are others, many others, that go through this kind of strange and difficult interference on the path of Ascension. There are many other metaphysical speakers that know exactly what I'm talking about, but don't talk about it publicly, because this is basically considered the kiss of death, in the New Age circles.

If you feel that something is interfering with you, well you know what, it probably is. So this inner aspect of yourself, you must listen to what you are feeling. So you can better trust the information that is coming in through from your higher self, as this is key. Because the problem with this is, as your mind says “this isn’t happening, this is ridiculous, I am impaired or something is wrong with me” and your higher self is saying “look at this issue because something is going on here and it feels off”. We cannot deny our experiences and feelings, even if we are fearful that others will persecute us.

We all must get to the level where we listen to our Higher Self, and that you realize that many other people on the Ascension path and as Intuitive Empaths are undergoing the same issues. This is something in terms of your own spiritual discovery process that you are going to have to find the truth of this within you, and learn to trust it.

So please know that when you are stressed out, when you are not trusting that God and the universe is going to supply your needs, it plants seeds of doubt. We've got to dismantle in our belief systems that stabilization and security is coming from the human order in the 3D material world, and to truly know that we are divine beings and put our complete trust and faith into our connection with the universal source. Know that we have the power to create what we need in that co-creation process, but we’ve got to get beyond the fear that cripples us. So this is what our lesson is, our manifestation lesson in preparing us for the higher dimensional energies. Maybe, we used to feel secure in the material creation. We used to have whatever it was that we identified with that made us feel stable and secure, as it represented in the physical. This must change in our perception, as we must find our real stability and security with the true source that exists inside ourselves.

All of a sudden the outer structures go away, things are dismantled and we are feeling really vulnerable. So as we move forward again, the most important thing is you have to gain control over your mind and emotions, and at least understand some of your multidimensional anatomy, so that you can choose higher emotional states and higher mental states, and to identify and witness when you have allowed your mind to choose a lower thought program. This does takes some discipline and you have to forgive yourself when you don't always have the strength to do that,, as we live in a Mind Control environment. But again that is the goal, to understand that you can reprogram your mind to perceive beyond 3D, you can reprogram your negative thoughts, you can reprogram your negative emotions, and allow yourself to choose higher and more loving and peaceful emotions. When you learn that you can do this, it builds confidence and its easier to trust yourself, to trust your feelings. And in my own experience what happens is that when you start to integrate higher light bodies, trust with yourself and trust with spirit and God, becomes an attribute of the higher light body. [1]

Discernment of Behaviors

Discerning balanced behaviors as spiritually healthy behaviors are a maker of trustworthiness and solid and strong moral character. (see GSF Behavior)

Discerning unhealthy behaviors as spiritually abusive behaviors are a marker of untrustworthiness and weak moral character.(see Archontic Deception Behavior)

With this comprehension one can assess trustworthiness in a variety of circumstances, and consciously participate with the inner self to make concrete steps to change weak moral behavior and affirm to replace that behavior with spiritually healthy behavior, to increase inner peace and inner harmony. [2]

Be True to You

Be True to You – Honor your entire being and life force. Inquire and know the contents of your heart, and only really give to others what feels joyful and aligned for your person. Do not bargain or sacrifice your truth; however do not avoid tasks that build discipline of the personal character. Ask your multidimensional selves what they need to feel balanced and happy, pay attention to your energetic and physical well-being and generate love and kindness to yourself. As a loving but firm, self-parent; give generously to the inner child with acknowledgement and loving appreciation.

Strong Moral Character

A Strong Moral Character is the physical foundation required at the base of building a strong spiritual house. In order to hold the spirit of Christos, as in acquiring ethics of spiritual Virtues, the first step is in making sure that the body, the physical self, is grounded in strong moral character. When we are honest with ourselves in building strong ethical behaviors, we also build trust with ourselves, and this is the cornerstone of Trusting Yourself.

Cornerstones of a Strong Moral Character:

  • Trustworthiness: Be honest • Don’t deceive, cheat, or steal • Be reliable (do what you say you’ll do) • Have the courage to do the right thing • Build a positive reputation to be credible • Be loyal to those who have earned your trust,
  • Respect: Treat others with respect; follow the Golden Rule • Be tolerant and accepting of differences • Use good manners, not bad language • Be considerate of the feelings of others • Don’t threaten, hit or hurt anyone • Deal peacefully with anger, insults, and disagreements,
  • Responsibility: Do what you are responsible for • Persevere (never give up!) • Always do your best • Use self-control • Be self-disciplined • Think before you react and consider the consequences • Be accountable for your words, actions, and attitudes • Set a good example for others,
  • Fairness: Play by the established guidelines • Take turns and share • Be open-minded; listen to others • Don’t take advantage of others • Don’t blame others carelessly • Treat all people fairly,
  • Caring: Be kind • Be compassionate and show you care • Express gratitude • Forgive others • Help people in need,
  • Community: Do your share to make community better • Cooperate • Build trust in community • Stay informed • Follow guidelines when they make sense • Respect authority when it’s earned with trust • Protect those less privileged

When we cultivate our physical self and personality to be disciplined to build a strong moral character, we are building the physical foundation to be strong enough to house the higher attributes of Christ spirit.If our body and mind is morally weak, it is also physically and energetically weak. These physical and energetic weaknesses translate into low moral character in most humans who are not aware of the Archontic Deception Behavior promoted as a value system. Since many humans are not taught to develop strong moral character, the mind and body are increasingly weakened when we are easily made consensual to low morals and low ethical standards. Many people cannot tell the difference between high ethical standard and low ethical standard as they are mind controlled through religion, gurus or other control mechanisms.[3]


  1. [Transcript -Psychic Self Defense Class One]
  2. Discerning Behavior
  3. Strong Moral Character

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